When a shell exploded near 26-year-old Oleksandr Budko, he found himself buried and in excruciating pain, leading to the amputation of both legs. This Ukrainian soldier was defending the northeastern Kharkiv region against Russian forces in August 2022 when tragedy struck during an attack on his unit.
Fast forward three years, and Oleksandr is now the centerpiece of a reality TV show where contestants compete for his heart. Promotional materials for the Ukrainian adaptation of a popular dating series feature him in various settings, from a flower garden to military fatigues, showcasing his transformation from soldier to celebrity.
In an interview amidst a rose garden in Kyiv, Oleksandr expressed his hopes of finding love through the show, particularly after a recent breakup. However, he acknowledges the daunting challenge of making a choice under the scrutiny of millions.
Beyond romance, Oleksandr aims to highlight the struggles faced by disabled Ukrainians through his television appearance. “This show is viewed by millions and is a significant opportunity to positively shape perceptions,” he stated. He emphasizes the importance of showing that injured veterans can lead fulfilling lives as integral members of society.
Oleksandr walks with prosthetic legs and remains active, recently filming a music video. Before the war, he was a barista and graphic design student with aspirations of travel, professional growth, and starting a family. However, his life changed dramatically when he joined the army, becoming one of countless Ukrainians responding to the conflict.
In August 2022, while stationed near Izyum—an area pivotal to Russian military operations—Oleksandr was seriously injured when a shell exploded. The city was liberated a month later, but at a severe cost. He recalls the moment of injury with clarity, describing the horror and immediate realization that he had lost his legs.
Despite the challenges of recovery, including wheelchair mobility before adapting to prosthetics, Oleksandr’s determination shone through. He has become a vocal advocate for the accessibility needs of disabled individuals in Kyiv, highlighting the city’s inadequacies.
With a surge in war-related injuries, Oleksandr’s experiences resonate widely in Ukraine. He has taken on significant roles such as hosting a show addressing the challenges faced by disabled citizens and has achieved recognition at international competitions, including the Invictus Games.
His transition to fame has garnered remarkable interest, causing the application portal for The Bachelor to crash upon the announcement of his leading role. Producers are portraying him as a beacon of hope, showcasing his vibrant life despite his amputations. His ability to ride bikes, drive cars, and climb mountains serves as an inspiring testament to resilience during tumultuous times.
