After getting engaged in June, the excitement of wedding planning quickly turned into a concern upon reviewing some venue quotes. The familiar sound of “ding-dong” has transformed into “cha-ching,” prompting a search for guidance.
The journey into wedding planning feels overwhelming: What should come first? Which tasks are urgent, and which can wait? To navigate this, I decided to use AI assistance, pitting Gemini Advanced against ChatGPT Plus to find the best wedding planning support.
ChatGPT vs. Gemini: Crafting a Wedding To-Do List
My wedding is scheduled for the summer of 2026, specifically between August and September, with an anticipated guest list of 100. I tasked both AI assistants with creating a comprehensive to-do list for 2024, 2025, and 2026.
ChatGPT’s Response:
ChatGPT emphasized the importance of setting a budget first. It also recommended booking the venue in 2024 and securing other vendors in 2025—highlighting a proactive approach to wedding planning.
Gemini’s Response:
Gemini advised venue hunting before drafting a guest list, which is not practical since knowing the guest count is essential for venue selection. Gemini later suggested booking vendors in 2025 and gave a relaxed timeline for registry setup—pushing it to 2026.
Both platforms agreed on shopping for dresses and sending save-the-dates in 2025, followed by invitations and vendor confirmations in 2026. ChatGPT also offered invaluable organization tips that I hadn’t considered, like using a binder for contracts.
Winner: ChatGPT
ChatGPT vs. Gemini: Finding a Budget-Friendly Venue
I attempted to find an affordable venue under a $20,000 budget, seeking all-inclusive packages. I created a specific prompt for both AI tools to locate suitable venues in Queens, Long Island, or the Hudson River Valley area.
ChatGPT’s Response:
ChatGPT identified several affordable venues, including Pavilion at Sunken Meadow State Park, offering a complete package starting at $18,000. Other options provided competitive pricing, demonstrating an understanding of my budgetary needs.
Gemini’s Response:
Gemini’s suggestions were less focused, featuring a venue that was not in my desired area and lacking full package offerings. This disappointing output did not meet my expectations for a Google-owned tool.
Winner: ChatGPT
ChatGPT vs. Gemini: Pricing Calculations
Next, I tested both AI assistants on their ability to analyze pricing charts from a venue’s wedding price list, examining inclusions such as administrative fees and taxes.
ChatGPT provided a more accurate total of $20,568.69, while Gemini offered a higher estimate of $21,017 due to varied calculation methods.
Winner: ChatGPT
ChatGPT vs. Gemini: Visualizing a Wedding Concept
In a fun twist, I requested both AI platforms to generate an image of a tech-themed wedding reception, aiming for a celestial vibe.
ChatGPT’s Image:
ChatGPT produced a visually stunning concept that matched my criteria perfectly.
Gemini’s Images:
While Gemini provided multiple images, only one resonated, failing to capture my vision as effectively as ChatGPT did.
Winner: ChatGPT
ChatGPT vs. Gemini: Creative Wedding Favor Ideas
Lastly, both AI platforms were challenged to propose inexpensive tech-themed wedding favors.
ChatGPT’s Suggestions:
- Customized USB Drives
- Portable Phone Chargers
- LED Keychains
- Earbuds
- Smartphone PopSockets
- Mini Bluetooth Speakers
- Touchscreen Gloves
- Digital Photo Frames
- VR Cardboard Headsets
- Fitness Tracker Bracelets
Gemini’s Suggestions:
- Personalized USB Drives
- Mini Bluetooth Speakers
- Phone Ring Holders
- Custom Phone PopSockets
- Portable Power Banks
- LED Flashing Badges
- Selfie Ring Lights
- Miniature LED Projectors
- Card-Sized Multitools
- Wireless Charging Pads
While both lists featured compelling ideas, ChatGPT’s suggestions included a wider variety that appealed more to my interests.
Winner: ChatGPT
Overall Winner: ChatGPT
In this comprehensive comparison, ChatGPT Plus outperformed Gemini Advanced across all categories, delivering well-researched, practical responses for wedding planning. Both tools are available at $20 per month, but ChatGPT clearly offers greater value.
